It's been a tough week.
FI & I got into a stupid argument over wedding planning. He feels our wedding has become "too complicated." Yes, we have a lot to figure out because our venue is a chairs-and-tables-only venue. Everything else is up to us. Dishes and linens must be rented, we are making our own centerpieces, etc. But he knew this when we decided on our venue, so I don't know why he's so frustrated about it.
Then, I feel a little let down by one of my BMs. FI & I asked a few close friends/family to help us with the cleanup the day after if they are willing, emphasizing that there is no obligation. We'll be providing a big breakfast/brunch for anyone who joins. BM said she would, provided she is able to take that day off work. Well, she must have gotten that day off --- except last week, she told me she's attending a sporting event that day.
If she can't help or doesn't want to help, fine. What upsets me is that she committed (again, provided she could get the day off) and then backed out. I'll get over it, I just don't think it was a great move on her part.
And lastly, we are trying to get price quotes for our mini cake for ceremonial cake cutting purposes and I have not been able to contact a SINGLE BAKERY. I've tried four over the past few days, calling during different hours and multiple times a day. I even just stopped by one, only to be told I have to make an appointment. THIS SHOULD NOT BE THAT COMPLICATED.
There is so much to do and I feel like I'm at it alone. I also feel like I can't vent to anyone because I hate it that any bride who's a little stressed can't vent without everyone being like: