I've learned from here that Honeyfunds are a faux-pas, and although I don't personally mind them ( I like buying Honeyfund gifts for friends' weddings!), I'd really rather not have one at mine. I'm just too worried that someone will judge me. My fiancé is completely set on having one, though. Like, non-negotiable. I've tried every way to convince him (including telling him that some people will probably still give us cash anyway and finally just asking him to pretty please just do it for me), and it's a no-go. I suppose this isn't really a question, because the issue is no longer even up for discussion, but...I dunno. Just thought I'd share.