Ok, so I struggle with this all of the time.Do people like me, or do they hate me? I know I have hangups with being liked and making everyone happy. I have been wrong several times, but I just can't shake the feeling that in-laws don't like me. I wanted to make a cake for my sis-in-law's birthday. I have asked every day if they want to have the birthday cake at Dad-in-law's house. No answer. Whenever I text or call DH's family... they NEVER answer me. I mean NEVER. It is so frustrating to plan things. They will answer H, but never answer me.
I talked to the birthday girl and she said she would like me to make the cake I had in mind for her. It is an apple bundt cake with cinnamon cream cheese frosting. I asked everyone else in a group text if that was okay and NO ANSWER. I was getting really fed up. At this time, DH's older brother started a group text and everyone answered him about having impromptu dinner, tonight. I told DH that I feel like I am invisible, because EVERY time I call or text, NO ONE ever answers me. But it was extremely hurtful to have another group text with his family member going at the same time, and they were all ignoring me. If it were this once, I would brush it off, but it is every time. I have all of their phone numbers correctly. H had to send out a separate group text to ask everyone to answer me because I was at the grocery store, and I needed to know. They all start answering, so I know that they got the message. But for whatever reason, they ignore all messages or calls from me.
Is this just typical muffinman insecurity, or would you think something was up?
*edited because I keep forgetting he is my husband. Lol