I have a bit of a dilemma with what to call my in-law's after the wedding. I have always called them Mr. and Mrs. "Last Name." I would love to continue calling them that but they do not want me to. I would just get over it and call them mom and dad but I have a stepfather who has raised me and I do not call him dad, I call him by his first name, so I would feel really awful calling FFIL "Dad" and my stepdad by his first name. I thought my only option would be to call them by their first names, which my FFIL has said he is fine with. The problem is that FMIL has said that she does not want me to call her by her first name and some of fiance's older family members have said that they feel that it would be disrespectful for me to call in-laws by their first names so now I feel like I can't do that either! People keep telling me to avoid calling them anything but I don't feel like I can avoid addressing them forever! This is stressing me out! Any advice would be appreciated!