So we were planning to use this caterer that comes with a day-of coordinator. However, we found out that the day of coordinator won't press 'play' on the ipod for the ceremony music, or move/press play on the ipod for the cocktail hours music (musicians will be playing for the later part of the rehearsal). My FMIL thinks this is a load of crock, and while I'm frustrated I agree with her. The caterer recommended I have one of my friends turn on the ipod to start the ceremony. I'm putting enough freaking $$$ into this wedding that my friends shouldn't have to do squat.
Then the larger question arose - who teaches us what to do for the rehearsal? Is that the responsibility of the rabbi? A different coordinator?
I'm so confused. I just want to lock my damn caterer in.
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