My H, I and 12 year old daughter were invited to the wedding of a friend of H. It will be a 4 hour drive and hotel stay. Since DD would not know anyone and the children are all younger we RSVPed for H and I. The bride called an hour ago to say my DD has to come. They had planned to rent a hotel room and have her babysit for all of the other kids coming! WTF they have never even met DD. I was floored.