Hi all,
My fi and I are on a tight budget. Our wedding is coming 6 months after a move across country so money is tight. We are doing a Vegas wedding (the majority of folks live 3 hours away from Vegas so no flying is necessary) We have booked a nice lakeside reception venue and were thinking of just doing a dinner afterwards at a local restaurant and then an "after party" for the crazy folks (50-60 people for dinner). We both have lived on our own and dont really need or want gifts as we have all we need. Would it be to tacky to ask the guests "In lieu of a gift, please join the bride and groom for a dutch dinner after the ceremony" In a way we feel like friends and fam that want to share this moment shouldnt expect anything...we want it to be about us and what fits in our budget...