And I could not be more relieved. Apparently she was smoking crack and trying to hide it from him. This was on top of a whole other mess of problems. I don't know if you guys remember, but we had an intervention for both her and him in January.
<--- my face when my brother called to tell me
Not only was she trying to hide in the bathroom and smoke crack, she was doing all of this while her daughter was in the house. I honestly thought she was just drinking again. I had NO CLUE there were such serious drugs involved too.
They came camping with us the other weekend, and she got shitfaced. She flipped out on my brother and was yelling and cursing at him. Again, all of this happened in front of her daughter. FI and I were pretty horrified, and I spent the rest of the night comforting her daughter. My FI had a long talk with my brother, and I think my brother took a lot of what he said to heart. So thankfully this Saturday, he woke her up and told her to get out of his house. She left, and the second he called me, I sent my locksmith friend over there to change the locks.
Supposedly right now she's in a hospital. After she left my brother's, she went to her dad's house. He caught her calling people for drugs, and then she threatened to kill herself (which is apparently what she does, it's the reason my brother was afraid to end it with her).
So, hopefully this whole ordeal is over. I will really miss her daughter though. That's what I'm most upset about, as is my brother.