Do you and your SO have a code word for 'sexy time'?

lovemyrunner

My BF and I refer to it as enchiladas. As in, "Man, I could really go for some enchilada right now." I can't remember for the life of me how it started, but it never fails to make us giggle. How about you ladies?

phira

We called it newspaper for a while. To make a very long story short, we were apart for almost two weeks, and we couldn't even talk for the first week, so we were both pretty frustrated. And when we could talk (but couldn't act on anything), and things would start turning a little sexual, we'd admonish each other for "adding newspaper to the fire." By the end of the week, we were just saying "newspaper."

bethsmiles

We don't have a code word for sex but we call condoms "canoes". We were making a shopping list for when we were going camping and I jokingly asked if I should add condoms to the list. BF said "Yeah but write down canoes instead because that will seem more normal" Because people totally buy canoes for every camping trip right? Now it's just a joke between us.

BreMR

We don't have a code word, it's mostly "wanna?"  or "lets go upstairs..."

Swazzle

No code words here. Usually we'll just start making out and making out is never just making out. There's also the occasional: "I'm horny", "Wanna do me?", "Let's bone", etc. 

Hummingbird125

Does "Let's bang!" count as a code? If so, that's ours.

[Deleted User]

We don't really have any code words or things that lead into it. What usually happens is one of us will walk into the room and say "Let's do it" and so on lol. Or one of us will just walk into the room naked and that means seks.

Peaseblossom55

No code words, but kissing is never just kissing....

labro

No code words here. We start kissing or touching each other and it inevitably leads to other things.

cu97tiger

Our code word for sexy times is: sexytimes. Either that, or I will do some hip gyration while raising my eyebrows. That does not, ironically enough, tend to turn DH on.

Usually our sexytimes begin with me waking up in the middle of the night with DHs hand under my shirt. Or coming to bed and finding that he does not have boxers on.

GoldenPenguin

UO: I HATE "sexy times." (The words, not the act.) Unless you're Borat, you're having sex, not "sexy times." (Because I say "sexy times" in Borat's voice.)

Regardless, no, we don't have a code. I like to get into bed first, totally naked, and cover all the way up to my chin so he doesn't know I'm naked, and then when he gets in and comes to snuggle he's like "OHHHHH. Gotcha."

ShallowSeas

No code word. Likes others have said, making out is never just making out. I guess we have code moves. If I start kissing his neck, he knows whats up Theres also the not-so-subtle sticking my hands down his pants. 

justbeingme93

We don't have a code word. SO and I are long distance for most of the year, so we basically just tackle each other when one of walks in the door.

cu97tiger

@goldenpenguin - I guess it helps that I have never seen Borat, so I have no idea what you're talking about there...

phira

@GoldenPenguin I was going to say that we sleep naked and that doesn't mean sex is gonna happen, but to be honest, most nights sleeping naked does inevitably lead to that.

lovemyrunner

I think we wound up developing a code word simply because we don't live together and my goofy schedule means we have to plan sex in advance.  Otherwise, yes the going to bed naked thing would totally be my move.  One day he texted me to ask, "If we get married and have kids can we still have sex?"  Apparently, one of the girls in his office was saying that as soon as she and her BF get married, she's cutting back on the sex.  I was like, "We'll be living together, so I expect a LOT more sex, Mr!"

ashleybunny8

We don't have a code for sexytime, but the code for my vag is "little lady." 

bethsmiles

lovemyrunner said:

I think we wound up developing a code word simply because we don't live together and my goofy schedule means we have to plan sex in advance.  Otherwise, yes the going to bed naked thing would totally be my move.  One day he texted me to ask, "If we get married and have kids can we still have sex?"  Apparently, one of the girls in his office was saying that as soon as she and her BF get married, she's cutting back on the sex.  I was like, "We'll be living together, so I expect a LOT more sex, Mr!"

WTF? Why?!

eilis1228

No code words here. FI will jokingly be like, "You want me to put it in your butt?" but that's as close to code words as we get. A lot of times I'll say, "I'm gonna lay you tonight," or I'll say I want the lovins. But yeah, we're pretty blunt.

loves2shop4shoes

DH and I usually just say something like, "I'm horny/frisky."  "Wanna have sex?"

Or sometimes I'll just pull out his penis and start giving him a BJ.  That usually gets his attention.

We also do a weird thing where if we're showering together, once we're both clean, we'll stand under the water and snuggle and then he'll start humming a tune he made up one day and we'll both slow dance under the water.

lovemyrunner

bethsmiles said:

lovemyrunner said:

I think we wound up developing a code word simply because we don't live together and my goofy schedule means we have to plan sex in advance.  Otherwise, yes the going to bed naked thing would totally be my move.  One day he texted me to ask, "If we get married and have kids can we still have sex?"  Apparently, one of the girls in his office was saying that as soon as she and her BF get married, she's cutting back on the sex.  I was like, "We'll be living together, so I expect a LOT more sex, Mr!"

WTF? Why?!

SITB
Uh, because she's crazy??  I have no idea.  But she makes me look like an awesome catch, so she can keep on talking!

lilacck28

In the first few months of the relationship we called it "cheesecake." That was because I love all things cheese so much, and I told him about how in college I used to occasionally refer to self loving as "mac and cheese". So it was just a fun continuation of a joke.  

Now we call it "lovings." I don't know why. We're just really schmoopy. We call each other "lovey" and "lovabug." I know. barf. But its not barf with him  

He usually says: "maybe some lovings?" or "time for lovings?". I usually get super quiet and "wiggly". Like, I'll kind of sashay up to him while he's doing something in another room and sway my hips. Or we'll be in bed and I'll roll on top of him and kind of wiggle a bit and grin. I guess I'm kind of bashful about it. But he knows what's on my mind and acts accordingly. 

Or, most often, making out gets more passionate and moves on to other things. 

rnsoon

GoldenPenguin said:

I like to get into bed first, totally naked, and cover all the way up to my chin so he doesn't know I'm naked, and then when he gets in and comes to snuggle he's like "OHHHHH. Gotcha."

We don't have a keyword, but my SO does this. It makes me giggle, lol. I know if he has the shorts on, it's a no-go.

lavenderfields13

cu97tiger said:

Our code word for sexy times is: sexytimes. Either that, or I will do some hip gyration while raising my eyebrows. That does not, ironically enough, tend to turn DH on.

Usually our sexytimes begin with me waking up in the middle of the night with DHs hand under my shirt. Or coming to bed and finding that he does not have boxers on.

FI does this. I have told him a million times that it is NOT a turn on and yet he continues to do it.

We usually call it sexy time too. 

lavenderfields13

loves2shop4shoes said:

DH and I usually just say something like, "I'm horny/frisky."  "Wanna have sex?"

Or sometimes I'll just pull out his penis and start giving him a BJ.  That usually gets his attention.

We also do a weird thing where if we're showering together, once we're both clean, we'll stand under the water and snuggle and then he'll start humming a tune he made up one day and we'll both slow dance under the water.

this is really cute

jenna8984

These are pretty funny! We usually call it "be naughty". Like if we want to eat a big snack after dinner, we'll ask the other one first if they want to be naughty that night or not, because you know, can't do it all full and bloated hahahah. We're pretty boring though- I think we always ask first, there isn't many times when we just randomly start making out and going at it. 

500days

FI will sometimes call it "boom-boom" or he'll say "wanna make love?" all cheesy. I'm more apt to say "wanna get frisky?" or "wanna bang?". 

@loves2shop4shoes- that is so sweet! 

BreMR

I am glad you are all as blunt as we are, I didn't specify in case we sounded like teenagers, but more often than not we say 'wanna bang?" and it's usually me that says it My fi knows he just has to kiss my neck or make out a bit and it's over for me.

buttercup1958

We don't have a code word but usually when we say let's go snuggle it leads to fun times.

morphemes

Generally we're pretty blunt, but at the start of our relationship we started calling it "snack time" for some reason, so that's kind of stuck. Last week we were at the beach with BF's family (14 people!) and when one of us wanted a private moment, we would just say, "hey, want to go get a snack?" or "Is it snack time yet?"

LabLove86

So I was hanging with some girlfriends - started talking about 'sexy time' and my friend said her and her BF's code word is Vitamin D (as in vitamin dick) . . . . and will say "I need some vitamin D tonight" 

Thought it was funny, and thought of this thread. Hope you guys enjoy it as much as I did! Haha!