I have already had my wedding. I never did save the dates, but have always wondered the next question....(not trying to be a jerk, just always wondered if his could lead to hurt feelings somehow)....from an etiquette or sorta philosophical manner, I guess...
If we always tell people we only have to do "save the dates" to people we are 100 percent certain we are inviting and that it is okay to not send them to everyone on the guest list., so my question is this...
Doesn't that somehow lead people to feel "b-listed" when they know others around them who DO receive them?!?? Isn't it sorta like hearing "If I have money, I will be inviting you but right now, I can't promise anything"!?!?!
Just wondering if anyone ever was offended..or know someone who got offended because they knew OTHERS received a STD, but they did not..only to be invited to the wedding several months later. Does that make sense? Doesn't it kinda show "top tier" "second tier" kinda invites to guests??!? If you did not receive a STD (and others did), but then received an invitation months later, couldn't that potentially lead to hurt feelings?!?! Just curious.....
Just curious if anyone else has ever had this thought??