So this is going to be contraversial, I just have the feeling. I've been engaged 8mo now, not a single arrangement has been made cause we've been saving up. I recently gained an awesome new job and our financial situation is better than I could've imagined. That being said, I think I'd like to swap out my center stone in my engagement ring for something a little bigger and more fitting of our situation. My fiancé is military, and I'm in school still, so finances were a little tight when we first got engaged (he bought the ring a year prior). Is this silly to even think about?