So we asked all of our parents who they would like to invite to the wedding so they could have some of their friends there too.
FMIL tells us that she's only close with one person at her work and she doesn't know if she'd come, I said well lets give her an invite and let her decide.
So I ask for the husbands name and she said she'd get back to me. So we waited a week and give FMIL a call since we really need to get these invites out.
So FI calls his FMIL and she word of mouth invited her... And of course she declined on the spot. (FMIL doesn't tell us until we ask too).
BECAUSE WHO DOES THIS? UGH.
It's a WEDDING. You can't just word of mouth invite some guests. We had already written out part of the invite too (Just the address part), So a wasted invite at that... I said no to a wedding for this exact same reason this summer. If you can't even be bothered to send me an invitation - of course I will say no.
Anyways just venting.
This was the FMIL who also made invites and send them out to our engagement party without confirming guests or anything. She even made her own (Awful) invitations - even though we had our own (???) I guess so she could invite who she wanted to invite?
I seriously love my FMIL... Just sometimes I'm speechless...