My dress changed! UPDATE!

climbingsingle

Ok, not really. But when I first bought this dress, I was in love with it. Yesterday, I was underwhelmed. I don't know why. And (I know my crazy is showing), I felt fat in the dress. I'm nuts, right? My mom, MOH and FMIL have all told me that I'm insane. Which....Ok, yes. I am. 

PS I blocked out my face because I'm worried ex-FSIL might be here. Yikes! 

beharrington

Right - you're nuts.  It is gorgeous.

ETA: and you're gorgeous in it.

holyguacamole79

I think you look fantastic! You might have been underwhelmed because it's not your first time to try it on, but it's not your wedding day. When I tried mine on for fittings, it wasn't that thrilling.

RebeccaFlower

Beautiful!

blabla89

Definitely nuts. That dress is fabulous and flattering. You look beautiful!

climbingsingle

sarahbear31 said:

I think you look fantastic! You might have been underwhelmed because it's not your first time to try it on, but it's not your wedding day. When I tried mine on for fittings, it wasn't that thrilling.

This is helpful. Thank you! I was so upset that I wasn't all, "O-M-G!". My MOH said on my actually wedding day when I have everything on and my hair and makeup done, I'll feel differently. 

theartistformerlyknownas

You are being crazypants. You look incredible!

mschristie123

I don't know what you're talking about crazy girl! You are stunning!

holyguacamole79

ClimbingBrideNY said:

sarahbear31 said:

I think you look fantastic! You might have been underwhelmed because it's not your first time to try it on, but it's not your wedding day. When I tried mine on for fittings, it wasn't that thrilling.

This is helpful. Thank you! I was so upset that I wasn't all, "O-M-G!". My MOH said on my actually wedding day when I have everything on and my hair and makeup done, I'll feel differently. 

Glad to help. And your MOH is also right

cupcait927

You look stunning! That dress is perfection on you. And don't worry, when I tried my dress on at my final fitting, I hated it. I'm hoping that my feelings change once I get all done up and have the whole package put together.

AlexaF2014

Mmm, no, you've got you're crazy pants on.

Girl, that body... I like! Like, damn! Go you!

climbingsingle

Thank you! You're all making me feel so much better. 

abbyj700

Seriously...you look wonderful! 

Bitch is crazy... :-) 

wandajune6

You look hot. Those are some serious crazy pants!

emmaaa

Definitely crayz. That dress looks amazing on you!

jenna8984

Yup. You're nutzo for sure!! I normally hate strapless dresses, I just find them weird and unflattering on most but I must say that you have the perfect rack for it and it really is super flattering!!

sarahufl

It is beautiful. You are nuts

But I hear ya- same thing happened to me. I was SUPER underwhelmed when I went for my fittings. My dress felt blah and plain- it didn't help that the other women there were wearing these big ball gowns and mine was very simple and fitted.

But when I put it on that day.....oh, damn, I looked fine! And I was super happy

climbingsingle

I'm so glad to hear I'm not the only one that felt this way at my fitting. 

raissyrais

What are you talking about??? That dress is GORGEOUS on you!!!

PS: Not too long ago, I was almost changing my dress for another one. I had been debating between the two before buying the first one and my doubts came back again. When I showed pics of the dress to my BMs and my Mom, they reassured me and told me I was crazy to want to change. We all grow through these little moments of doubt! And now @pinkcow13 has the other I wanted lol!

gladyscf

You are nuttier than squirrel poop!

You look amazing in that dress and it is extremely flattering! It's beautiful as are you wearing it!

pinkcow13

How come I can't see the dress? Regardless, I'm sure you look fabulous in it. I think we all go through those moments of doubt. Now I'm second guessing my choice in dress, and it doesn't come in till November lol.

climbingsingle

pinkcow13 said:

How come I can't see the dress? Regardless, I'm sure you look fabulous in it. I think we all go through those moments of doubt. Now I'm second guessing my choice in dress, and it doesn't come in till November lol.

I don't know! Let me try to attach it again. 

Maybe I should have gone with a wider belt. GAH! Why am I doing this to myself?!!?

Senecaf

You look fab. Not fat at all. All hourglass like and stuff

levioosa

You look gorgeous! 

raissyrais

pinkcow13 said:

How come I can't see the dress? Regardless, I'm sure you look fabulous in it. I think we all go through those moments of doubt. Now I'm second guessing my choice in dress, and it doesn't come in till November lol.

No that dress is beautiful!

pinkcow13

OMG, no you look amazing in that dress! It's gorgeous! And your body looks HOT in it. The way I see it is you got it for a reason  - you felt and looked amazing in it when you tried it on, and you knew it was "the one." I think it's normal to kinda second guess yourself after it's all said and done. You have NO reason to second guess yourself on this one, though!

theartistformerlyknownas

ClimbingBrideNY said:

pinkcow13 said:

How come I can't see the dress? Regardless, I'm sure you look fabulous in it. I think we all go through those moments of doubt. Now I'm second guessing my choice in dress, and it doesn't come in till November lol.

I don't know! Let me try to attach it again. 

Maybe I should have gone with a wider belt. GAH! Why am I doing this to myself?!!?

STOP IT. Stop looking at it. Stop thinking about it. You will be perfect.

beethery

Bitch you CUCKOO. YA LOOK DAMN GOOD!

climbingsingle

lolo883 said:

ClimbingBrideNY said:

pinkcow13 said:

How come I can't see the dress? Regardless, I'm sure you look fabulous in it. I think we all go through those moments of doubt. Now I'm second guessing my choice in dress, and it doesn't come in till November lol.

I don't know! Let me try to attach it again. 

Maybe I should have gone with a wider belt. GAH! Why am I doing this to myself?!!?

STOP IT. Stop looking at it. Stop thinking about it. You will be perfect.

You are 100% right. Thank you. 

slothiegal

Dayum gurl. You look GOOD.

KatieinBkln

You look fantastic, not fat at all, and the dress is just beautiful. I love all the beautiful origami folds--just enough to be interesting, not so many that it looks like a craft project. Also your boobs look great, just sayin'.