I just picked my wedding party, one maid and one matron.
The reaction of my Maid (cousin) seems like she is offended that I have another. She said she's confused and that I'll have to tell her what I want her to do.
Now my family is attacking me on making this decision and I feel very overwhelmed and annoyed. Is it rude? Is this a big deal? Should I only have one? In my perfect world they would both work together throughout this journey. I cant reverse asking them.