Wedding Woes

Mornin'

YAY Friday!

I was listening to the radio this morning and a local station is doing a campout at our local 'screampark' (6 haunted houses in one place).  They're calling it a creepy campout.  You do all the haunted houses, pitch your tent, and then the camp gets invaded by zombies and other haunted house people all night. ...Yeah...Nope, nope, nope, nope, hell to the nope.  Could there BE any more nopes?

What's up for the weekend?

My IL's want the kids tonight AND tomorrow night.  w00t!
Tonight: drop kids off at IL's and have dinner
Tomorrow: Pack, clean, workout, go out.
Sunday: Pick up kids from IL's, go take pics, bring kids home, and then I'm going to A's mom's house for a GTG/cookout.  It will be 4 years on Sunday. 

Re: Mornin'

  • I had a horrible awful dream last night that DH left me.  I was crying and he would just laugh in my face.  He didn't want to talk about why or try to work it out.  He put the house on the market and I had to get a second shift job so I never saw the kids.  Usually if I wake up I move on to another dream, but this one just kept picking up where it left off.  I'm tired and emotional today.

    I'm wedding gift shopping today.  I took some pictures to post to help choose a dress for said wedding.  When I looked on the computer it was an easy decision.

    Tomorrow I have a 1st bday party that will be filled with drama.  I am looking forward to the solo 2 hrs in the car and some time with my friend.

    Sunday is tbd.

  • I hate those dreams, 6.  :(  
  • I've caught a cold, and I feel kind of crappy, but not enough to stay home.  (Maybe if I hadn't just used a shitton of sick days on DS and his ear infection/upset tummy.)  TGIF.

    DD has a movie night at school, where they go in their pajamas and bring a lovie and a blanket.  She is dyyyyyyying to go, but it's from 7-9 and DS goes to bed around 7:30, so the plan is for DH to take her.  I love DD to the moon and back, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't looking forward to putting DS to bed and then crashing myself.  It's the Lego Movie, which we haven't seen, but I've read good reviews.  Anyone seen it?

    Tomorrow is DD's first soccer game, and there's an 80% chance of rain.  :\  My mom was planning to drive down, but with those odds, I might try to gently persuade her to try another week.  Because if she comes, then it will be back to the house afterward for snacks and chit chat and whatnot, whereas if the game is rained out and my mom stays home, then I'm totally staying in my pj's until it's time for swim.

    @6fsn, I've been watching Parenthood on Netflix while I pump, and the episode I watched last night was a lot like your dream.  (For those who've seen it, it was the one from last season where Julia wants to go to marriage counseling and Joel is basically like whatever, you suck, everything's your fault so screw marriage counseling.) 
  • That's EXACTLY what it was like. In my dream he said "no amount of trying will change you."  tears.  I'm teary now thinking about it.  I texted DH he replied "despite my family history this will never happen.  No worries and big hugs"
  • We loved Lego Movie.  And I remember when the kiddo had those movie nights.  They were before DefConn, so DH and I would drop him off and go out to dinner.  They were the best. 
  • 6fsn said:
    That's EXACTLY what it was like. In my dream he said "no amount of trying will change you."  tears.  I'm teary now thinking about it.  I texted DH he replied "despite my family history this will never happen.  No worries and big hugs"
    Mr.6 is awesome.

    A few months ago, I dreamed that I did something wrong--don't remember what, but it was along the lines of dropped the laptop or something--and DH killed me.  It was horrible, he was stabbing me and in the dream I was thinking "He's going to kill me and the worst part is, he'll go to jail and the kids won't have either of their parents."  I was kind of freaked out when I woke up, but DH was more freaked out when I told him.  I know what you mean, I felt unsettled for several hours afterward. 
  • I ended up sleeping on the couch for a few hours last night. H's snoring woke me up from a dead sleep. I'm having enough trouble sleeping, dude, this isn't helping.

    This weekend I think we might hit up an Italian Festival in a neighboring county and then on Sunday PF and I have a birthday party to go to. All in all, I would like a low-key weekend.
  • I just saw that today is the National Day of Encouragement.  I'm going to run with it.  Can't afford the wedding of your dreams?  Don't plan within your budget, ask someone else to pay, and loudly complain if they balk!  MOH/BMs not living up to their responsibilities?  Fire the lot of 'em, and start fresh with people who are just grateful for your notice.  Parents footing the bill for your wedding but not letting you do whatever you want?  Tell them to go straight to hell (but only after you've cashed their checks).

    Today feels very encouraging to me.
  • Man, 6---that dream is horrible.  I'm glad Mr. 6 helped your fears.  :(

    I'm sitting here trying to work with a ridiculously slow network to print on the new plotter and it's literally---3-5 minutes for each sheet to print.  And I have multiples, I've printed off probably 200 pages in the last 2 days, but it's been a struggle and I feel like my life is reduced to babysitting this silly thing.  But we need the prints. 

    And then I'm asked to make 2 copies of a large binder to go into some trailers, and wow...can't you just scan and save it too!?!  Yeah, okay---sounds great.  Now if I could get another 12 hours in the day too, that'd be great.  Yeah!?
  • Japanese festival and makeup shopping tomorrow.  Sunday I'm taking the plunge into painting our miniatures.  I hate playing with the gray stuff and it seems like a good "you like things pretty and you're anal" type of stuck indoors project.  Other than that, normal weekend stuffs.
  • I'm tired and grumpy today. My legs still hurt from this stupid workout I did on Tuesday. I want to sleep so bad but DH is home right now dicking around before he leaves for work. If I go lay down he ends up being a pain in the ass. The upside is that today I'm getting my brows waxed and hair cut.
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