My wife and I were recently married at our town courthouse and are planning a big party for next year to celebrate with out friends and family who couldn't be there with us this year. We have our place picked out and we love it. Since there are many weddings on Friday nights now the hall is offering us to do our rehearsal on Thursday night rather than Friday. We do not anticipate many out of town guests to be in by Thursday night for the rehearsal dinner (which we are paying for) so for Friday we are planning a "last hurrah" night. We will be doing a group tour of a local brewery and then going out to eat at a burger joint. We will be paying for the tour but will not be paying for the dinner. How on our wedding schedule do we let guests know that we are not paying for the meal without sounding tacky? I have gone to many out of town weddings were the hosts did not pay for every meal but I don't recall how this was worded.