Has anyone have to keep their engagement a secret for any period of time? A close family member got engaged and married right away at the court house, then had a little celebration while we were in the process of talking marriage. Then we received an invite to another wedding from a close family member. So when he proposed I chose to keep the news our secret until after this wedding because she is really close to us and we don't want to take away from her special celebration. The wedding is coming up so I can't wait to be able to wear my ring and announce it to our family. Is a week after the wedding too soon to announce our engagement? (I anticipate some of you may think that we should have just announced it right away but I really wanted to let the bride to be have all the spotlight, specially since we will be seeing many family members that live far away and they will be wanting to hear all about the proposal and see the ring. I would be mortified if that happened during her wedding).