We are having a small reception following the JOP ceremony with close family / friends at our favorite local five star restaurant. We have a special menu for our party, and of course we will be covering all dinner expenses. However our menu does not include alcohol. Guests will instead have soft drinks, tea, coffee bar, and several non-alcoholic spritzers to choose from. The servers for our room know that selections can only be made from the pre-selected menu, but the restaurant does have a full bar just outside the room.
I'm concerned that guests will stop by the bar for alcoholic beverages and then feel slighted if the drinks are not covered. Is it rude for us to not include liquor on our menu even though it is readily available at the restaurant?
We have a couple recovering alcoholics in our guest list. FI and I didn't want to upset / cause difficulties for them, and thus decided to forego alcohol and instead have a fantastic five course dinner followed by wedding cake.
I don't want my guests to be shelling out money at our reception... Is it rude to not include the bar costs at the reception?