I will try to keep this short, to start my wedding is 3 months away. My MOH has been more than willing to help plan the bachelorette party and bridal shower, to the point where she will not even let me help or know the details. I had a weekend getaway planned for my bachelorette party for a long time like 8 months and 2 days before we leave she just found out a friend of hers (who i am not also friends with but have met a few times) is going to be staying at the same hotel as us at the same time and she wanted to know if the girl could stop by which I told her was fine. Everything was going great that weekend until the night that was my bachelorette evening. My MOH's friend met us at the pool and we all started slowly heading up to get ready for the evening she was the last one that needed to come up and get ready, well she ended up spending an additional 3 hours at the pool (2 of my other BM had to go find her and bring her up stairs) she got completely wasted with her friend and didn't want to get out of the water even though everyone else was dressed and ready to go for the night. She told my 2 BM it was a really hard decision her her because that girl had been her best friend for a long time and then she had this bachelorette party. Once she finally got to the room and dressed( she didn't shower or anything just changed clothes) she was completely drunk and a handful to deal with while we were going out and she ended up getting back on the bus to the hotel without me at the end of the night. I did not say anything to her that night because I was trying not to ruin my evening. The next day she acted like nothing happened and then when I told her that her actions hurt my feelings she just made excuses for everything she did instead of really apologizing to me. This was 2 weeks ago and things have not been getting any better we barely talk now and when we do it is awkward. She sent me a rude text asking me if it was best if she didn't bring a date to my wedding and I told her she was more than welcome to bring a date but they might not be sitting at the bridal party table. She then replied by saying with her being so busy in the wedding she didn't want him to be ignored or have to sit alone. I have tried to meet up with her for lunch or something but she says she is busy and has to work even though I know she goes into work later in the day. My bridal shower is 3 weeks away she put my name down with hers to RSVP to and when I told her someone would be attending she told me I didn't need to tell her every time someone confirmed she was just going to plan on food for the number we invited (even though that number is double who is actually attending). She has yet to even ask me what kind of food I would like at my bridal shower and she is not including my mom in the planning and when my other BM ask how they can help she tells them she has it all planned and doesn't need anything. I don't know what to do but this whole situation is really stressing me out and I don't think I can deal with this for another 3 months. I am thinking of asking her to step down as MOH! Advice Please??