For those of you who are Catholic and married, what did you do at your Engagement encounter? We have to decide if we want to do the weekend long trip which is $400 or the 8 hour single day encounter which is $120. We're also taking pre-cana classes. The deacon says if we do the single day encounter, we won't be missing much but both my mom and sister went to the weekend long encounters so I'm worried about what I'm missing out on. The money is making me hesistate though. If I'm not missing much, then I don't want to spend $400 but I want to be as prepared as possible. Any advice?