I have a concern about my bridal party. Here's the situation:
I will have 3 attendants, 2 sisters (one who I'm very close with, and one who I'm not) and my BF
- I want sister 1 to be my MOH, but this will hurt sister 2's feelings (and possibly my BF's feelings)
- I could have my BF be my MOH, and not choose b/w the sisters, but then that would hurt sister 1's feelings (she told me that already) (BTW- my BF did this exact thing... she has 2 sis's, one who she's close with, and one who she's not, and she chose me as her MOH to avoid choosing b/w sisters)
- I could have no MOH, but then who stands next to me at the ceremony, since that would basically be the MOH by default? This may also hurt sister 1's feelings since she has never been a MOH and thought I was her last hope.
I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but I'm not sure it's avoidable. Has anyone had to deal with this situation, or have any advice?