My fiance and I have been together for 5 years so all of our families was not surprised that he finally proposed.. But now I just feel uncomfortable around his mother, a few months back his cousin got married and his mother openly admitted to me how upset she was that not alot of their side of the family was invited, mainly her sister in laws familu. So at first I was all excited to tell her since my family is so small and im very close with her side to invite whoever she wanted. Unexpectedly, she responded with not knowing who to all invite. It just seemed weird since she was complaining previously. Even more so, she just seems very disinterested in our wedding, we asked if they wanted to come to dinner and to see the venue where we are having the wedding, was hoping to just have an private dinner with his parents and us since his brother is not interested in that type of stuff.. But she insists on my brother in law and his girlfriend come along. I dont know if im just being over sensative but just seems like her attention is always ony fiances brother and she cant do anything with out him. Even the dinner we invited them too, so we could surprize them with out engagement and pay for their dinner, she tried to invite his brother and girlfriend without asking either of us if we minded.