We are doing a first look and all our photos before the ceremony. As soon as the ceremony is over guests will drive 3min to the reception space where they will be able to go to the bar and eat hor dourves until our arrival. Since we will have already done all the pictures we will arrive at the reception venue soon after guests. Is it rude to only have half an hour of hor dourves until the reception actually "starts" and dinner is served after and our introduction and first dance?
Also my shower was two weeks ago. I finished all the thank you cards the next day and put them in the mail the day after that. If you can find the time I found it was really helpful to write my thank you notes so quickly after since the emotions were still fresh from the day before!