I just found out my father has serious opinions on making sure there is no gap between the engagement ring and the wedding band. When my grandma died a few days ago, my dad said I could have her wedding band to remove the diamonds and put them in a different setting so there is no gap. I told him I didn't care if there was a gap and would actually prefer to use her band as is. My grandpa made it for her (he was a diamond setter his whole life), and that sentiment has way more meaning to me than using the diamonds. He was taken aback. He couldn't understand why I'd want that gap. Can I get some opinions based on wearers of rings with both a gap and no gap? Or any opinions in general about this. Since I JUST got engaged, I haven't really thought about it, but I'm wondering if the gap is really as bad as he's saying. I was really surprised by how serious he was about this... He even pulled my FI aside to tell him to make sure I don't have a ring gap. Who cares?