For those of you paying for any of your weddings, or ye OMHs, or NEY but know-there's-a-ring-somewhere-in-this-house, when did you start seriously setting money aside for the wedding? Was it just a separate part of the savings you already have or did it require adjusting your budget and giving up Starbucks once a week?
We're NEY and our time line is a little foggy, but once we stopped talking in hypotheticals, I had a mini freak out about money and having enough saved to be ahead of the game. I've talked myself down since then and decided that I'll just add a little extra to the savings I already have as a potential buffer (and worst case scenario, I'll have extra for vacation, woot:)