We've been looking at BM dresses and all three of my BMs like all of these dresses. They all say the first two are their favourite (in the first picture), but they would wear any of them. We'd be getting them in the pale pink/blush colour. My dress is attached also... My moms concern is that the long pink dress in the first photo will "take away" from my dress. Is the long one in the first picture too much? What does everybody think?