It's been a rough day between H and I. First, we got into a fight over savings. He agrees we need to save more, but he doesn't follow through. He regularly puts money I want in the saving account in the checking account because we "need it." Yeah, because we "need" the $250 we spent on Amazon stuff this month. So we fought about it. Then I left and went to run errands.
That then made me more upset because while I was out doing stuff for the house (including buying thread to hem his new pants) he was napping. And the whole time I was out the only thing I could think about was how I carry so much more than he does. I work harder, come home later, I cook almost every night and do more chores around the house.
I get home and we don't really talk about the savings fight. I start calling around to get new auto insurance quotes to try and save us some money and he starts folding some clothes... poorly, but what ever, at least he's doing something. He gets through half the basket (which is 90% his clothes) and he tells me the rest is mine. Well, that started a whole new fight.
Apparently he couldn't fold the clothes because my cup was on the table as was the peanut butter he pulled out, but I had the last bite of (meaning it was now mine). I couldn't believe that he wouldn't just clear off the table to make room for himself to fold clothes- like I do every time I fold. But no, he wanted to make a big deal out of it. I brought up how much more I do and how I would like it if he just did this one thing. Well, he did not like that at all. He started yelling at me and saying how he pulls more than his share of the weight. Blah, blah, blah. All lies. He typically only does something when I ask him to then he complains the whole time about it.
I'm so pissed off right now. I'm so tired of feeling like the only adult in our relationship.
thanks for letting me vent.