marriage equality in our website

Portland09102011

I'm debating adding a page about marriage equality in our website. Its important to me that if I'm going to take advantage of being able to be married that I some how acknowledge people (including some of my guests) that don't have that right. I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable so I thought the website was a low key way to say something. My FI thought it could be seen as insensitive to a few of the guests who don't believe in gay marriage. There are a few people who are extremely conservative but are not people we are close with at all (not because of their politics though). I feel I've sat through some ceremonies in my life I disagree with (the woman shall submit and obey the man) and wasn't offended that we didn't view things the same way. Am I being insensitive here?

Here's what I drafted:

As we look forward to the social and legal benefits of marriage, its given us a deeper appreciation for what some people in this county are denied. We believe that all people deserve the dignity and support that comes with marriage.

If you would like to support marriage equality, there are several organizations below with information about how you can help.

Readingdiva123

 I think this is a great idea! I love it. I'm a strong believer in the fact that everyone should be able to get married to whom they want whether it is a man and a woman, two women, or two men. It should not matter we all have a right to love whom we want so we should be able to seal our love with marriage. I like it.

snarky_girl

I agree with PP. I think it's a low-key way to do things. Yeah, you will likely offend some people. But then again, their bias and hatred towards gay marriage offends you. If they say anything about it to you, tell them to each their own. They don't have to agree with you. Just respect that you have a different opinion. And since it is your wedding and your day ... They can just deal!!

kizat

I like it...

go with it.. and like Snarky said... they can just deal!

kizat

FYI: if you're registered at Target, you might want to reconsider it. If you're wondering why, just google Target Anti Gay and you'll see all the articles.

tiffgriffin7

I think you should include it, especially since it is something that it seems you are passionate about. Your wedding is about you guys. 

ambermorley

I was considering adding a link to my registry page that asked people to donate to the marriage equality campaign in our honor. I may also include a non-political link as well, like the Red Cross or Habitat. We lived in CA for 3 years and it's an issue very near and dear to us. I think it's a great idea to make a statement.