So recently my fiance and I began rethinking our (ok maybe my) decision to have a big wedding. I'm not going to lie I still want the wedding but I'm trying to be responsible also. If we have this wedding my fiance and mom are paying for it. I don't want to burden her and his budget is maxed out saving for this wedding. I have a fear that a big wedding will prevent us from being able to save after marriage and buy a car and home. Unfortunately, I'm stuck with the desire of a bigger wedding, because my family is big and close and I want to share this moment. But also I'm trying to remember that after our wedding day life begins and we need to be able to manage and start our lives off comfortably.....What's a girl to do when she has big dreams but plans in the near future after we're married..we cant have both