My fiancé is out of town working so I am planning most of the wedding myself. He's given me free reign and tells me it's my day but I do want some feedback from him about some decisions. He told me it's mostly stuff that he's not interested in and most importantly he has me! For example, cake tasting. He wants chocolate. If I like it, do it. I want it to be his day too and to be happy is I am going out of my way to do things as a surprise for him like a grooms cake and little details along the way. One thing I have definitely learned and what I love about him is this .. Don't get caught up in the details, stress on the small stuff and live in the moment. I'm a planner and over thinker a little too much sometimes!
Re: What does he think?
I could have written your exact post a couple months ago. But a few decisions in to the process, he realized that he does have an opinion about everything. So, going forward, he is involved in every single decision.
It does present a challenge with him being out of town. Especially since he isn't in an office, and he's in a pretty rural area, so I can't even count on emails going through to his phone. We make it work and the process has become much smoother and less stressful and has actually brought us closer together because we are planning OUR wedding instead of MY wedding in which he's just a participant.