So this weekend is my bachelorette party. When my MOH (my sister) started planning it, I told her I wanted something really low-key. (I went to a big multiple day out of town bachelorette party this summer, and things got a little out of hand, so I didn't want to have any similar experiences.) They planned dinner out at a restaurant I like, and then invited people back to my apartment for drinks, movies, games, snacks and a sleepover. Around 20 people were invited (including myself, my MOH and bridesmaid.) Now yesterday and today people are getting back to me and letting me know they can't come. Some people are out of town and don't want to travel this weekend and again in a few weeks for the wedding. Some people work irregular hours and have to work. Some people have other things going on or just said they won't be there. In the end, it looks like it will be myself, my MOH, bridesmaid, 2 coworkers, and my mom at dinner. Then just my MOH, bridesmaid and I back at my apartment afterwards. I understand that people have lives outside of my wedding, and I'm really not upset with people for not coming, I'm just disappointed. I was really looking forward to having a relaxing girls night before wedding crunch time kicks in.