My dad has been my pastor almost my entire life.
He has done several weddings, and really enjoys them.
My fiance and I decided pretty early on that we wanted my dad to just be a guest at our wedding. He was so emotional when I told him Trevor proposed, that I do not know if he could make it through our ceremony without crying. I would love for him to be able to experience the wedding from that standpoint and not up front. Also, I do not think that Trevor wants to view him as pastor on that day, but as my dad.
My mom brought up that not only many people from our congregation, but also HE may assume he is doing the ceremony.
How do I bring this up without sparking the idea?
How can I tell him my thoughts without breaking him down? I'm so scared that this was secretly a dream of his, to marry his oldest daughter, and that now I'm going to crush that dream!
HELP!