Right when I got engaged, I immediately asked three girls to be in my wedding. My sister, my fiance's sister and my best friend from college. All three girls live in completely different parts of the world but they are important to me. However, my best friend from college moved away before I got engaged and now we have lost touch. We haven't spoken in nearly 6 months and the wedding isn't even until May. She never visits here and she has already bought her bridesmaid's dress. I don't want her to come here just for my wedding and have it be an awkward moment. She doesn't know anyone in my wedding party or any of the attendees and I'm afraid I will feel the need to entertain her the entire time. What do I do? Should I try to reconnect? I am very busy, and although it may sound shady, I don't have time to reach out and rekindle our relationship. Advice?