He and I are military and our families are a bit spread out, I have family in Michigan and Texas, his is in West Virginia. I want to do the ceremony in Michigan, because I have friends and family there that are short on money, so traveling would be easier on them, he wants it in West Virginia for similar reasons. Any tips on how to settle this would be helpful. And meeting in the middle isn't a viable option, because who is going to pay for the hotels?