This is going to be a long one - so please bear with me here. My sister is my MOH and a friend from college is in the bridal party. They never hung out before, but it has become clear that they're like oil and vinegar as time has gone on. I was hoping they could be adults for my sake, but evidently this is beyond the both of them.
My sister has decided to send me photos of texting wars she and my friend in question have had. Not only does this stress me out, but it puts me in an awkward position. I've spoken to my friend about how she speaks to my sister and made it clear that this will not be tolerated. And my sister is always about getting the last word in. Even after said friend apologizes, my sister ccontinues to be nothing but nasty so as to "give it right back to her". I can't deal. And then, when i tell my sister she is wrong for how she handles the apology/situation, well i'm just the worst person/sister/bride ever. And ungrateful. Yeah that too.
I'm stressed out beyond belief. No matter what i do i'm wrong. For even saying to my sister she could have handled something better, didn't need to be snarky, etc.,. she threatens to quit as MOH. My wedding is in March and I cry almost every night from all of the stress. I've even thought about disbanding the bridal party because these two make it so miserable.
please please please help