Both my FH & I are fortunate to come from large families, and lucky enough to have large groups of friends. As lucky as this is, it makes it difficult to create a guest list!
Many of our friends/family are from across the country from where we are holding the wedding. We would love for them all to come, but know, realistically, that they won't be able to. We also have a large "B-List" with people we would love to invite... How early do we send the first batch/out of town invites/ask for a response so that we can know who is/not attending, and still be able to add the B-List without that seeming so apparent?
This ranking of people makes me feel bad, but I know it is necessary.