B List Snark

loveislouder

So this is a good'er.

FI got a facebook message from a girl he used to work with that said "Hey! Our wedding is this weekend. YOU are welcome to attend. No partners or children, just YOU. Let us know if you can make it and we'll send you an invitation in the mail hopefully by tomorrow."

There are SO many things wrong with that. Like, seriously.

sarawifenow

How do these people survive on a daily basis?

loro929

Yeahhhh... That's polite Oh wait, NOT. Reminds me of that thread on posting a message on Facebook regarding wedding invites to see who was worthy of one.

I'd pass. sorrynotsorry.

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thisismynickname2

"YOU are rude. Good luck with your marriage.- Mr. Loveislouder"

novella1186

Holy shitballs that is rude. I'd just reply "nope nope nope." 

KatieinBkln

sarawifenow said:

How do these people survive on a daily basis?

I'm not sure. I might have killed them by now if they were my "friends."

raissyrais

Well wow that's a a whole new level of rude.

loveislouder

RIght?! We won't be going because he's got mid grade pneumonia But I want to tell them we're not coming because they're asshats.

slothiegal

What the actual fuck....I don't even know where to START with that.

Sugargirl1019

loveislouder said:

RIght?! We won't be going because he's got mid grade pneumonia But I want to tell them we're not coming because they're asshats.

Not "we". Just him. Not you.

I hope he responded he would not be attending without his FI to a party he was never important enough to be originally invited to.

levioosa

I'd respond, "Great, my family and I are so excited to attend!  I'll be bringing Brad too.  You remember him, right?  He's a hoot!" ---just to see how she reacts.

But then again evil me is always tempted to get a rise out of people.  

thisismynickname2

Honestly, I dream of being rude but am unfailingly polite.  If this is truly someone he "used to work with" can he get away with an honest response?  Instead of saying, "No thank you" could he actually tell her she was rude to ask? Would it burn a bridge or cause further drama?  Inquiring minds!!

climbingsingle

That's fucking crazy. 

hellohkb

In what world think it is okay to do something that rude? 

wandajune6

thisismynickname said:

Honestly, I dream of being rude but am unfailingly polite.  If this is truly someone he "used to work with" can he get away with an honest response?  Instead of saying, "No thank you" could he actually tell her she was rude to ask? Would it burn a bridge or cause further drama?  Inquiring minds!!

I'm the same way!

I'd probably decline with a comment about how you hate missing Saturday nights with your spouse.

What an ass!

loveislouder

Honestly, I've only met her twice. She shows up to FI's birthday party each year, and that's the only time we see her. FI wanted to invite her to our wedding, so I kind of want to fbook invite HER only, but that's the snarky me to see how she likes it. I too am unfailing polite. Stupid parents, teaching me how to properly behave in society lol

pinkcow13

hellohkb said:

In what world think it is okay to do something that rude? 

Omg that face lol

That has got to be one of the rudest things I've ever heard.

JeeGooDowster

All i have to say is YUCK!

I wouldn't even reply.  I think FB messaging show status so the rude girl can see if Mr. Loveislouder read the message...heck, he should delete without responding and hopefully she sees that!

KatieinBkln

thisismynickname said:

Honestly, I dream of being rude but am unfailingly polite.  If this is truly someone he "used to work with" can he get away with an honest response?  Instead of saying, "No thank you" could he actually tell her she was rude to ask? Would it burn a bridge or cause further drama?  Inquiring minds!!

Why on earth would you want to keep a bridge to this particular couple? Burn that shit to the ground; they are gross. A little "drama" never killed anyone, and if standing up for himself means her Fi loses a shitty friend, that sounds like a win-win to me.

Edited because I didn't realize this was about OP, not from OP. Reading, how does it work?

martha1818

Oh wow! This just makes me laugh. It sucks when it's a friend from work because you maybe would keep your snark level in check I'd be tempted to use the reply from @thisismynickname, though! 

DanikaMarie0227

So rude! FI had a co-worker invite us to her wedding earlier this summer. On a Wednesday she asked him if we wanted to come to her wedding...which was that Friday. No thank you! But at least she invited both of us? Haha. 

[Deleted User]

I will not be attending an event to celebrate your relationship without the person with whom I am in a relationship.

hellohkb

adk19 said:

I will not be attending an event to celebrate your relationship without the person with whom I am in a relationship.

Exactly

huskypuppy14