where do I begin.
1. The Pastor double booked on our wedding day. This was my biggest fear and it came true. I told Kelvin to call and set up an appointment but nooooooooo he forgets. I guess the pastor figured we called off the wedding or something bcuz he hadnt heard from us in a few months but it's like I didnt know we needed monthly updates to let him know what our status was. We told him the date that should be good enough. Ive been fighting with myself if I should be upset or not but I dont want God to punish me for getting pissed with a pastor lol. idk what to feel he says he'll try to do both or have another pastor do it. I'm just not satisfied with that answer at all. We came first!!!! so what her wedding is going to be at ur house.... WE CAME FIRST!!!!! (exhale)
2a. his brother and family are dicks!!!! the deadline to get suits fitted was Oct. 4th tell me why NONE of his family has gotten their suits fitted and all my family and friend in the wedding has. It takes 5 minutes and a 20 dollar deposit and none of them have gotten it fitted. they knew this 2 months ago they could have put 20 bucks down and paid 20 dollars a week to pay off the 160. Now these idiots wanna cry that theyre broke!
2b. the worst is his brother who is supposed to be his best man....first he tells us it's our responsibility to make him get his tux fitted. I was like " You are a grown ass man. There is no need for me to tell you what you already know you need to do". Then after finding out the suit had to be paid in full by the end of Nov. He tells us that he wont be getting his tux and that he is more important then us and will be spending his money on an outfit for his 22nd birthday party instead. so our wedding isnt priority but yet he wants my fiance to come to his 22nd birthday at a club. if Kelvin goes I swear we will have a problem, I was beyond pissed when he said that and when I told my FI to find a new best man his brother just shrugged it off as if he doesnt care.
my fiance is one of the kindest ppl on the planet... I kid you not he is the absolute sweetest person Ive ever met in my life. So for his family not to be there hurts me bcuz I know it hurts him. there is so much more going on I just want to break down and cry but I know crying wont change a thing,,,,, I'm just ready for all of this to be over!!!!