My grandfather died recently and my wedding is in two months. I'm sure I could cancel his boutonniere, but I'd rather think of something to do with it. I was thinking either have my fiance wear two, or have it on the little tray that the priest will have the rings on when he blesses them, so it will be on the altar the whole time. I don't want to do anything too overt, like leaving it on an empty seat or anything like that because that would definitely upset alot of people.
Any suggestions?