Any help is appreciated....so my Fiance and I are doing our wedding ourselves. It will be very small..48 guests total including kids. I don't think we have a lot of drinkers coming, but were thinking about providing alcohol during the cocktail hour and maybe some during the ceremony. My question is that I am not thinking that men would opt for a signature drink offered at the cocktail hour over a mixed drink or a beer, but I am not sure. My fiance's sister suggested a cash bar so people can have mixed drinks, but I don't think that is good to invite people to your wedding and ask them to pay money. We have talked about having a cash bar if people want something other than beer or wine, but I am still not sure at all. We will have water, tea and lemonade as well.