Okay, so the FI and I have been working with a fertility specialist, and we decided that with my age (39), that we probably shouldn't wait until after the wedding to get crackin' on a baby. However, we did not anticipate the first regimen the doc put us on to work the first time I did it (we'd been doing some other non-intensive methods before), and now I am preggars. Yay! We were just going to push back the wedding and have our own little nugget be the flower girl or ring bearer, but FI's mother, traditional and very Colombian, issued the decree that we were to be married now, and not wait. lol
So, we moved our wedding from May of next year to this December! Fortunately, our venue has been fabulous (and excited) to work with this new change of plan. All our vendor have been on board. We've had to scramble with a lot of things: invites, dress, etc. It's scary and exciting at the same time. The wedding is important, and we want it to be nice, but our perspectives have changed quite a bit, and we both realize that the wedding is no longer the most important thing ever.
Wish me luck! Send good energy because, dammit, I'm exhausted!! (and nauseated). lol