So we are planning a destination wedding in Hawaii. My fiance and I have been to Hawaii a number of times and completely love it and hope our family and friends love it too. We have been researching a bunch of hotels and a lot of them have their own hotel coordinator. For current and past brides, did you use the hotel coordinator, used a full wedding planner or did it yourself? When using the hotel coordinator, were you able to customize the wedding plans to suit your needs? Was using a full wedding planner frowned upon in hotels where they have hotel/event coordinators?