My FI and I have been together 7 years we have 3 children together and have been engaged since March of 2014. So we finally chose a venue and a wedding date. We are so excited my mom is excited my girlfriends are getting goose bumps but when I speak to my future SIL about it she barley cracks a smile and continues with some negative comment about renting tents (witch we wont have to do because it comes with the wedding venues package ) She seemed almost irritated my the whole thing. I get the same reception from my future MIL almost to the point where I am beginning to think they do not want us to marry at all. Before you ask Yes we plan on paying for it ourselves and had not asked nor do we expect any money from my future in laws. I am excited and I want to talk about it and include them but the way that they are treating me I don't think they want me to. I am very upset by this because I love my Fi very much and I do not want him to be at odds with his family. What do I do