Hi, all! My fiance and I are running into some wedding planning troubles. He is from a devoutly Catholic family. I was baptized Catholic, but not raised Catholic. We do not consistently go to mass. However, his family has decided that if we do not get married in the Catholic Church, they will not be attending the wedding. We already have the plans set to have the ceremony and reception all at the same venue.
So my question is this - Is it heard of for a Catholic Church to do a private ceremony for just me, my fiance and his parents the morning of our wedding day? Then maybe they would feel more comfortable attending our secular ceremony (the ceremony we truly want)?
Thank you all for your input during this very stressful time in our wedding planning!