Hi ladies!
We are getting married July 2015 and we are on a tight budget (and have large families!)
I am fairly certain that some of my family members will not be able to make it to the wedding (for many reasons) but I do want to send them an invitation. However, my planning brain (curse of a teacher!) wants to have a solid headcount sooner than later (for planning and budgeting!)
I can see a few options:
1 - Send out invitations relatively soon (so like 8 months in advance)
2 - Send out save the dates and then get word back that they wont be able to attend
3 - Send out save the dates with an rsvp (and from a quick google search I can see that this is probably a no-no ...)
What do you think??