I hate that I even have to ask this, and just typing the
words make me feel sad. A very good friend of mine who is definitely invited to
my wedding is on the threshold of divorce with her husband. They are still
living together and nothing is official yet, but unfortunately I don’t think
they’ll still be together by my wedding next fall. I hate to sound insensitive but whenever I talk to my friend, she is pretty
confident about ending her marriage.
And so I wanted to ask about how best to
handle inviting her/them. My FI and I are hoping to send out save the dates
after the holidays and I was planning on just sending the save the date
addressed to both of them, and then dealing the invitation address months down
the road, when there might be a clearer status of their relationship (where I might possibly addressing the invitation to my friend "plus guest." Or do I
just skip sending them a save the date? It’s just a little awkward and I was
wondering if anyone had advice or previous experience dealing with a similar
situation.
Thanks everyone!