My fiance and I have been in two weddings together where my hair was pulled back tightly in a french braid bun style. He has told me he thinks I look like a boy with my hair in an updo. I personally love it when it's in an updo, and my hair stays tight and looks great all night! He wants my hair curled in a half-up style for our wedding. I told him my hair doesn't stay curled, and showed him a picture of our friend who was just a bride. Her hair had fallen out before the reception. He thought it looked fine though. I've shown him other updos that are much looser and he still wants my hair down. I'm growing out my hair, and I even showed him a side curled pony, and he thought it looked like a bird's nest. Ugh, has anyone else been in this situation? Should I just wear my hair the way I want? or listen to his request about my hair?
BTW, I always pin my hair half up, so maybe he doesn't like change? This is like the one thing he has cared about for our wedding, so I don't want to hurt his feelings too much.