Has anyone had . . . or planning to have a Junior Bridesmaid?? My fiancé and I have a young girl in our life that we would really like to include, but we aren't sure what we should give her to do in the ceremony? I don't really want her standing up with the bridesmaids during the ceremony . . . so maybe that's the wrong thing to call her. But does anyone have any ideas? She is about 12, so too old to be a traditional flower girl. But, I don't mind doing things a little different. Can anyone give me some suggestions? I thought about having her pass out the programs, or little things like that.