Ouch..

theycallmelinz

My feelings are hurt. I have several cousins all around my age so we're pretty close. One of them texted me last week and said I should take off early yesterday so we could all go see the new Hunger Games movie at 2pm. I wrote back "Aw man that sucks!! I really wish I could but I'm trying to save my time off for the wedding! I wouldn't be able to go until after 5." I see that she read it, but I didn't get a response. Whatever, I kind of just forgot about it.

I just saw on Facebook where another cousin said, "can't wait for girls night and hunger games movie tonight!!!!!" and tagged the others. They're going at 6:30 tonight. I totally could have gone tonight, and I could have gone last night if they'd waited until 6:30 to go. Bitches.

 

Has anyone hurt your feelings lately and you want to vent about it here instead of calling them out on FB? (which is what I really want to do)

flutteringinfl

My coworker also saw Mockingjay without me, and seeing as how we're also friends and we saw the last one together I guess I assumed we'd see this one together too. But you know what they say about assuming. That you shouldn't.

I've found that since elementary school, most people who've hurt my feelings haven't done it on purpose. Doesn't mean I don't feel bad, but at least it hurts less and I get over it quicker.

theycallmelinz

flutteringinftmyers said:

My coworker also saw Mockingjay without me, and seeing as how we're also friends and we saw the last one together I guess I assumed we'd see this one together too. But you know what they say about assuming. That you shouldn't.

I've found that since elementary school, most people who've hurt my feelings haven't done it on purpose. Doesn't mean I don't feel bad, but at least it hurts less and I get over it quicker.

You're right. And I can be really sensitive sometimes. It stings but I'll get over it.

climbingsingle

That really sucks and my feelings would have been hurt too. 

There's a couple that I feel is purposely excluding me and my H from certain outings because they weren't invited to our wedding. We really only became close with them at the end of the summer, and I certainly didn't want them to think they were b-listed. But they've since thrown 2 parties, and invited all of our mutual friends but us. It sucks, but what are ya gonna do. 

sarawifenow

Awe I'm sorry. It always sucks to not feel included in things. You could maybe try reaching out to your cousin and let her know you can make it if the invite is still open!

 

lacqueredlover

Eh in this case, if I were you, I'd text the one that posted it on fb and say "oh I thought XXX said you were going earlier, I'm free after 5 tonight, can I join?"  

theycallmelinz

lacqueredlover said:

Eh in this case, if I were you, I'd text the one that posted it on fb and say "oh I thought XXX said you were going earlier, I'm free after 5 tonight, can I join?"  

That's a good idea, but I'm PMSing and really pissy so I'm like Screw them hoes! It's whatever though, I'm looking forward to going home to FI tonight and opening some wine and packing for us to go out of town tomorrow night  

flutteringinfl

theycallmelinz said:

flutteringinftmyers said:

My coworker also saw Mockingjay without me, and seeing as how we're also friends and we saw the last one together I guess I assumed we'd see this one together too. But you know what they say about assuming. That you shouldn't.

I've found that since elementary school, most people who've hurt my feelings haven't done it on purpose. Doesn't mean I don't feel bad, but at least it hurts less and I get over it quicker.

You're right. And I can be really sensitive sometimes. It stings but I'll get over it.

I can too. That's why I need to remind myself of that. If I were living wherever you live, I'd totally go see it with you!

novella1186

I'm sorry OP, I would be hurt and pretty bummed out too if I were you. That's not cool. For what it's worth, if TK were having a party IRL, you'd be invited!  

hellosweetie1015

That sucks so bad. I'd be really hurt, for sure. *hugs* 

My mom hurt my feelings yesterday. I commented that FI and I might run in a jeweler that's closing here in town, and she said that we should because I need a "better" engagement ring. She's the first person to say anything about my ring, and I can't react to her the way I would anyone else because she's kind of been fragile recently. It's kind of been eating at me ever since - I don't know why she'd even say that.

theycallmelinz

@hellosweetie1015 wow that's shitty! I'm sorry! But I hope you score some awesmoe fancy things at the jewelrers

 

Thanks @flutteringinftmyers and @novella1186. TK parties are my fav!

esstee33

hellosweetie1015 said:

That sucks so bad. I'd be really hurt, for sure. *hugs* 

My mom hurt my feelings yesterday. I commented that FI and I might run in a jeweler that's closing here in town, and she said that we should because I need a "better" engagement ring. She's the first person to say anything about my ring, and I can't react to her the way I would anyone else because she's kind of been fragile recently. It's kind of been eating at me ever since - I don't know why she'd even say that.

Say whaaaat? That's super shitty.  

Sugargirl1019

OP, I hope you were able to text and join them maybe?

hellosweetie1015 said:

That sucks so bad. I'd be really hurt, for sure. *hugs* 

My mom hurt my feelings yesterday. I commented that FI and I might run in a jeweler that's closing here in town, and she said that we should because I need a "better" engagement ring. She's the first person to say anything about my ring, and I can't react to her the way I would anyone else because she's kind of been fragile recently. It's kind of been eating at me ever since - I don't know why she'd even say that.

Post pictures so we can AW it for you. We are full of compliments (except when we disagree on Christmas songs).