First engaged a few weeks, I'm 34 never married, he has never been married. I haven't worn a dress since 99'. Only been to a couple weddings never anything fancy, I'm not comfortable being the center of attention. I haven't even been in a wedding or a part of planning one so yeah out of my element. The only thing I know is I do want a certain dress, the color blue, and I refuse to wear heels. If it weren't for that fact this is the only time I WANT to be in a dress, and both our families I wouldn't even worry about any of it. The past few days I have been asked so many questions by him about what I want I'm getting nervous, and realize how clueless I am on all this. We aren't doing a wedding planner a couple grand budget is more than enough. I'm not a chick who has ever thought about "when I get married" if I did it's been long forgotten. Oh and blue roses.